Perceptions are the truth

In recent weeks, I've been on a mission to accompany a female friend of mine.

Shes been feeling down because of a certain premonition my friends and i tried to advise her earlier.

Now shes feeling down becoz her ex-boyfriend left her.


ALL GUYS are bastards.......she proclaimed.


But we ought to know better. Before long, she will be freed from these lousy lonely helpless feeling. Its a passing phase in life.... Meet the wrong guy, get ur heart broken and then you move on.


Its a vicious cycle that goes on till you meet the right one. Till then, bite the bullet and bear the pain. We'll all definately see better days. Depending on what kind of a person you are, you experiences will differ.

1) Some will most prob be crushed and be bittered by the experiences. In the anxiety to find the right one, they relentlessly try out different partners. Some boosting double digits 'true love' encounters within a short span of a couple of years. By the time they find 'The one', they are left with nothing but the skeleton of their old self.

I pity not them but the final 'true love' they find. if its still called that...

2) Some will just grow smarter after the humbling experience and eventually find their true love after single digit 'true love' encounters.

I wish them well.... this usually happens during my mum's generation and is considered old fashion but really, i would like to belong to this category.

3) Many others in today's society (Gen Y)...... would just like sex. If the sex is good, its most prob true love. They'll take their chances... afterall, having good sex is most prob more satisfying than a hot bowl of soup when they have flu or after a tired day at work.

I envy these people. Not for the good sex. But for their plain ignorance. Ignorance is bliss..eh?

Oh well...true love aint easy to come by nowadays..*


On the bright side, I've made light work of the situation.. =)

Deciding to kill 2 birds with 1 stone, i told the guys to meet for 'Chong Qing' Steamboat. Really, i suck at comforting people so since i most prob do a lousy job, i decided to find something that i enjoy doing.. EAT.



Oh well.... This is as neat as it will get. Everything nice and proper. Check out the number of crabsticks we took.



Let the cooking begin... The bottom right hand quadrant belongs to me. Hahaha...



Mid way through the dinner... suddenly..



A prawn tries to escape the gripping jaws of the boiling soup..



Theres really no escape. The prawn is now being pressed down by the soup spoon.



Cindy with her egg...brought from home. Im not sure whats shes trying to do..



Now i know.. =(
Im not sure if the uncle and aunties would be too happy to see this.



Windy isnt very happy..



Thats becoz he ate too much...



Its interesting how a steamboat dinner can degenerate into something so sinful...



What happen to my clear soup?



On the way out, i saw a poster on how it was to be. We obviously aint very good with this steamboat thingy..



Tried our hands at dessert.



My Honeydew Sago!! Yippeee...



After a very fulfilling dinner...im obviously too full to think straight...



End of dinner. Need to go find my true love. =p



I wonder who she's talking to...
hahaha...

More later.
I need to welcome 2008. Yipppeeee........

Regards
True Love Believer.